At one of the last all girl schools in Dallas years ago, the
instructor in a 'Charm Course' was urging her students to give
their escorts every chance to be gallant.
"Remain seated in the truck until he has had time to step around
and open the door for you," she said.
Then, returning to reality, she added, "But, if the big, dumb
idiot is in the restaurant ordering his steak... don't wait any
longer."