Yes, he already 16, and can have freedom, but freedom is a
privilege not a right. If he can’t manage basic stuff properly, can
he be trusted if he is given more freedom? If he gets his facts
right, and can prioritize his time, I see no harm in giving him
more freedom. Otherwise, it is doing more harm then good. You don’t
jump from elementary school to highschool.
Freedom is a privilege? So... It's
OK to be ruled by a dictatorship (read: N.Korea) because it's not a
right? Interesting point here. Today I learnt that humans have to
somehow seek permission from someone or something to have freedom.
Wonder how that works.
After the completion of his schoolwork, sure he is free to do as
he pleases, but if the laptop is going to be distraction, then
there’s no point in getting him one. Furthermore, if it’s for
project work, you work in a group, so his peers should have a
laptop, and if it is for e-learning, he school has the take to
consideration of students who cannot afford a laptop. So a laptop
is not a necessity.
Your statements contradict here.
After he completes his work, he is free to do as he pleases. So,
what if he wants to game? How about a round of BFBC2, let's say.
Can he do that on a netbook? Nope. Can he do it on an iPad? Nope.
Can he do it on a decent-performing laptop or desktop PC?
Definitely.
So having a netbook or iPad for 'studies' doesn't exactly let him
do as he pleases after he completes his work.
Besides, it isn't cost effective, and the small screen is a source
of annoyance to many.
Classical music can help you study, but do you need the source
of music to come from a computer, isn’t a normal mp3 enough? What
about the generation who did not have tvs, are you here to say that
they could not study? Think again! I agree with that lack of sleep
i cause you to lose concentration in class. Also, computers and tvs
stimulate your mind so to have a deep, and sufficient sleep, it is
best not to use them after midnight, or best, 10pm. However, if he
were to complete is required work, and excels in his studies, i see
no reason for him to do so. Work and no play makes Jack a dull
boy
You can say this, but your
previous statements don't seem to be echoing this line of thought
from you.
I'd be dull as heck if all I had was a netbook. Granted, TV is not
an option for me because my parents refuse to get SCV. All I have
is Mediacrap, which in all seriousness, can go die in a fire
because they suck so much.
As for OP... Just let him do it.
He'll realise the consequences in future if he doesn't
study.
Then again... Not to brag, but I got 11 O-Level points before
CCA deduction.
And I didn't study.
TF2-ed right up to the day of the exam.
How cool is that?
Not saying your son should be like this, but if he does pay
attention in class, he should ace the exams easily.