Just want to check how many of you would dare to approach girls
on the street and how would you start you conversation with?
Most of the time when I board the train from harbourfront to my
place at buangkok, there was this girl who also board in
the same station as me and alight also the same. She captured
my attention when in train and even sat beside me, when we both
alight at the same station we walk quite close to each other
towards the escaloter, my heart was beating fast and wondering how
would I approach? It's kind of weird when you walk up to her and
straight away ask for number right? would it scare her off? (for
girls answer).
Any creative ideas?
Personally, I am not interested in starting conversations wih
stranger, male or female, regardless of appearance.
But if you are interested, here are some things which you may
try out:
1) Direct approach. The next time you meet her, tell her what a
coincidence it is and say Hi to her. Start a conversation which you
are able to control, and make it short and sweet to prevent her
from finding you irritating. Do this repeatedly for 3 ~ 5 times at
least, then you can start asking for her e-mail first. Only
after you chatted with her quite often, then should you
attempt to get her hp no.
Oh, did I mention that this approach should only be tried out
only if you are good-looking enough?
2) 'Accidental' approach. Bump into her 'by accident' or drop
your coins/ items near her. Apologise/thank her for helping you
pick the items up in the respective cases, and start a conversation
with her about how often it is that the two of you see each other.
If she say yes, she often see you, then you can try starting a
short conversation with her everytime you meet her, till you feel
confident enough to ask for her hp no. If she says no, she doesn't
remember you, I suggest that you don't bother to try anything
further out.
Well, once again, your looks matter. If you are not at least
above average-looking, don't bother trying.
3) 'Helping' approach. This one requires a bit of luck and you
to be around. When she drops something, or couldn't find a seat
while you have one, help her out by doing the gentlemanly thing.
Next, start a conversation with her after she thanked you, and
mention about how often you see her. Depending on her reactions, if
she say yes, she remembers you, then start a conversation with her.
Continue this everytime you meet her, and you should be able to get
her hp no. by the 3rd time you meet her. If she doesn't remember
you, then start a conversation everytime you meet her, and by the
6th time you talk to her, ask for her e-mail. Only ask for her hp
no. when you think the 2 of you have converse enough.
In this case, you only need to look average at least. It is the
'best' scenario, but you will need quite a bit of luck.
All in all, I will say that appearance matters a lot, so make
sure you put on some gel and try to look neat/cool when you decided
to try approaching her. Btw, everything above is read up by me, so
don't blame me if they don't work.
