We ladies are more concerned with our appearance lah..
Guys if 2 concerned later end up gay looking - pluck eyebrows,
facial, spiffy dresser, etc etc..but they do have to know the
basics like clean skin, hair, facial hair grooming, clothes that
suit them, proper hygiene etc..
Got nothing against gays, just that I find guys have to know
where the line is between decently groomed & too much
grooming!
I personally am not attracted to metrosexuals. Just
clean, normal groomed, that shows he cares enough about his
appearance & hygiene not to scare you off!!