Well, regardless of whether someone is your employer or not, you
should speak to him/her with manners and courtesy, especially if
you are expecting help or guidance from him/her. Don't you know
that at all?
Besides, I'm just answering your question. If you speak that way to
your boss, it would most likely cost your job, and that means
having less or no food on the table.
But no, you don't own me, and neither do I want to own you. I
rather own a car. 
