"then again, if there is an apple and a orange.....
why can only choose one and not both?" >> that's the
point =D if there's a choice..men will go for good looking
ones..that's why realistic & kinda fake when they said that
looks doesn't matter 
whereas for women...u can often see chio bu with fat ugly
ppl & others might speculate that these women are really
good ppl for looking past the exterior outlook of their men..but in
actual fact, these women are looking far more than inner
beauty..they are looking into the men's $$ 
is a realistic world 
the moment one tell u that look dun matter....
he is lying... well.. 99% of them are...
there is always a choice.... since there isnt just 2 women ard
in this world....
women aint just being more holy or wat when they look beyond the
outer beauty. They just have different thing to look out for. Some
go for security, which can b in term of money, other for a good
provider, can too b in term of money, or love, etc. Some like guys,
go for the cute looking one..... since they oredi have wat others
ger seek.....
so, in short... gers are more realistic then guys.....
guy often tend to go against logic and praticality when it come
to selection of his gers....
u know why?
