Dun go for 9550 becos it really suck to the core in term of
performance. Pay a little bit more and get a 128M 9600 will be more
then sufficient for ur current spec. As for 1G of RAM you can go
ahead if you want to but few years down the road if you intent to
upgrade ur cpu etc, ur RAM will be useless as you will be looking
at DDR 400 etc kind of RAM.
Also if your chipset is nforce chipset, please get a pair of RAM
and not just a single module. (ie: 2 x 512M) nforce chipset allow
higher mem bandwidth output when the mem are in pairs. As for other
like VIA and SIS go ahead and get a single module if you want
to.
As for mem brand, go for the cheaper one like Hyuudai or generic
brand. No point going for branded one like Kingston, Cosaire and
Trancends. From experience, they work just as good and it much
cheaper too.