1) since the object is fully decelerated constantly,
s = 1/2 at² = 1/2 vt
solve for t. then find acceleration using a=v/t. Then find the
force using F=ma. Since the object comes to a stop, it loses all
it's momentum. Hence the impulse of the force is the initial
momentum of the object.
2) don't understand the question, don't think there is a way to
do it in the first place as it depends on the initial velocity of
the baseball...maybe some other forumers can help.
3) find the change in momentum, that is the impulse. Clue: the
difference between +5 and -5 is 10. Find the average force by
using F = I/t.