aiyo , the way u sound it is like even someone work super hard n
he have no chance leh
if everyone think it that way u think it,they would stand no
chance at all in fulfulling their dream lor
got dream is good but got dream without doing anything is
stupid
I'm saying be realistic for now .... not telling you to stop
aiming for the stars ...
one can lie to anyone and everyone, but one mustn't lie to
oneself ....谁都能骗，不能骗自己
sure, everyone wants to get into a good school and do well, but
one must equally be dispassionate and impartial to youself about
your chances of achieving that stated goal ... be true to yourself,
ask yourself, can you really do it, realistically, based on past
performance ? the chest thumping is for others to see, but deep
down, it's important to review the chances objectively ....
cos this goal, is not like those "one day I'll be a billionaire"
... or "one day, I'll have a ferrari and a house in nassim road"
kind ...
this goal has a time limit one ... you can't keep trying and
trying forever till you succeed, there are only so many times you
can retake O levels or A levels to your satisfaction, before life
grips.... go think about it ....
but of course, it's your own life ... if these words doesn't
sound nice, then just listen to the ones that you like to hear
...