LOL. THIS IS NOT A SPOUSE ISSUE.
IT IS WHETHER THE PERSON IS VIOLENCE IN NATURE. I ANGRY, I BEAT YOU
UP. I ANGRY I BEAT MY WIFE UP. I ANGRY I BEAT MY FATHER, ETC.
IF HE/SHE IS NOT VIOLENCE IN NATURE, HOW YOU PROVOKE HIM/HER ALSO
WILL NOT RESORT TO VIOLENCE.
For me I won't beat my spouse, I will f*** her twice as hard only.
