Don't be intimidated. While I highly doubt that you're right, if
you think the form is bad, then explain why. If we have differing
opinions we will air them like we have. So far other than
recruiting of the wrong muscles, a point that I have refuted, you
haven't explained why you said what you said, and what, in your
mind, is "correct form". The challenge to post your stats is simply
a means of establishing your legitimacy and experience. You can
have all the theories in the world, but if by applying those
theories you only manage to bench 30kg, then it's moot.