dont u all think we r driftin apart

derek SG

dont u all think we r driftin apart?? we r no longer so close alreadi loh!! theres no gathering?? theres no topic where everybody talk together…...maybe becos we all hav lost the interest…

jasmine SG

Sad Sad

Aoshi SG

yeah i think so tooo...
but i think many of us r busy loz.... either working NS or studying for 'n' and 'o' loz...

Chinchila SG

It take each other effort to maintain the closeness we have before. Do you think u have given much effort? How much do you know how other feel? How much do you know what is happening in other people life? One hand can't clap. Some of them maybe in the beginning have some motive when they join YM's forum. Maybe they dun want a real sincere friendship. who knows? maybe they feel that we are not the group of people who they want to associate with.
In life people come people go. they are a few will stay in your life and become dest of friends. some is just like the food we eat, pass by the intestine then leave the body.
Without any outing does not mean we have drift apart. some of us still call one another to chat. meet up one another for afternoon tea or movies.
Gathering is just a formality. To tell you the fact they are some in the group that who feel that no point to mmet up. I think you all don't know about it.
If you want gathering just call up all and check who is free and who wants to go out. I am sure they will be a few who will meet u up. A gathering does not need all to be present although it is best to have all.
No topic becos now we dun have a center of attention. Last time YM is the center as she is the DJ. When she annouce any news over the radio we chat about it here and hence we have the same topic. But now we dun have her providing all those topic. As friend now we have to find things to talk about. It does not have to be a common topic but just post what u think , how you feel or what you met in life. Maybe could recommmend thing you eat, read etc here. it is creating topic to chat.
When school reopen you students will be busying studying liao. Adults everyday will be busy with work.
Changes is common in life. Everything changes. the only thing that dun change is changes.

zhi SG

things are like that.

yongmei SG

well, frankly speaking if we don't care about each other, we wouldn't be coming to this forum at all. i agree some of us didn't come to this forum regularly but at least we bother to come in and see see look look. though i was pretty busy few weeks back, i still come to this forum whenever i feel stressed or when i think i have something special to share and i am happy to see that some old friends are still here. like shuiren, zora, etc etc.

if there is anything you would like to share, be it good or bad things, besides sharing with friends, you might want to share with forum friends right? it's all about sharing. the more you share instead of expecting to get, the more you will get in return out of your expectations.

you will still meet new friends in your life but this meicaikourou forum is like a cafe where you will still be back one day. no one has to force you to come. It sure feels nice having tea with friends around you asking you how you have been.

take care, friend!

jasmine SG

yeah.... i believe that sometimes when u have something to share u might 1st thought of the forums friends... i think maybe us of us is quite bz... that we seldom post anything here lor.... Smile

huijun SG

you probably remember me, you probably don't :p

yes, it does hurt when you appear to be chatting to friends on a regular basis, and suddenly everything stops.
anyway, if you miss us just 'call' Smile

it's normal that we all miss each other from time to time.
but to me, true friends stuck together, no matter what.

i do pop into forum whenever i'm free. i dun post any topics doesn't mean i dun care.
by right, u should know, anuty huijun is not that fluent in english hence i have difficulties lor! Very Happy

i very longwinded, once start can never stop,sure u wouldn't want to chat wif rite

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now, i know that whenever i'm in forum, i must say HELLO!
H = How Are You?
E = Everything All Right?
L = Like To Hear From You!
L = Love To See You Soon!
O = Obviously, I MISS YOU........EVERYBODY Smile

P.s. Derek, pls look @ the time i post my msg then u'll know I DO CARE! otherwise i shld b sleeping by now :p

jasmine SG

mm.. maybe, the time we come up to the forum is different lor... u see, for student maybe the "free" time is after homework maybe in the evening.. but in the evening u adult juz knock off from work so.. hardly see each other online...

and maybe this forum is not like the old one, that we can see "who's online".... Smile

angela SG

i agree with yongmei, i agree with ccl, i agree with huijun.
it takes effort, n true friendship withstands the test of time.

Chinchila SG

see, like that a topic is created and even people we seldom see come and post. it shows that we all care n still come in here without posting.

^__* SG

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^__* SG

I agree with derek, I agree with Jasmine, I agree with Aoshi, I agree with Chinchila, I agree with Zhi, I agree with Yongmei, I agree with Huijun, I agree with Angela, I agree with Zora, I agree with Yizi, I agree with Shuiren, I agree with Liyan, I agree with GeeBee, I agree with ^__*, I agree with KT, I agree with TTB, I agree with Ekin, I agree with Aquarius, I agree with Yen, I agree with Ming, I agree with Cole Cash, I agree with Lunasea, I agree with CF, I agree with you, I agree with agree.

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jasmine SG

u are….???

Chinchila SG

who is this person?
nvm. as long as dun talk rot can liao

huijun SG

u r by derek, u r by Jasmine, u r by Aoshi,u r by Chinchila,u r by Zhi, u r by Yongmei, u r by Huijun, u r by Angela, u r by Zora, u r by Yizi, u r by Shuiren, u r by Liyan, u r by GeeBee, u r by ^¡Å*, u r by KT, u r by TTB,u r by Ekin, u r by Aquarius, u r by Yen, u r by Ming, u r by Cole Cash, u r byLunasea, u r by CF, u r by you, u r who u r.
(who u r????????????????????????????????????
since u knew us!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! then i supposed u r must one of them lor Very Happy

angela SG

anyway, he/she has no originality. copy me. chey! i despise plagarism.

jasmine SG

haha.... this person funny arh!.... anyway, can spice up this place oso fun lah! Very Happy

huijun SG

it’s plagiarism rite! chao long :p

Vivi SG

I agree wif all if u!!!!!!!!!