Me about the same, did a wonderful 21st birthday, but not enough
money to cover everything or everyone.
A good fren helped pay out 1/2 of the party costs and I was so
embraressed!
After that, I dont do parties. Can do for others provided
they have extra cash to cover more then what is expected, but hate
to do it on a budget.
For a 21st birthday, it might be nice to bring the mother to a
spa. (Even that is very expensive already.) Have your father
buy you a key necklace pandent & maybe a sister that bake you a
cake.
and the rest of the money, maybe can bring yourself out on a
short holiday, maybe in Vietnam!
What is more important then you yourself enjoying your own money
for your birthday?
