Then you have to ASK YOURSELF these: How did you get attracted
to him in the 1st place? How well do you know him before you jump
into the love wagon with him? If you've seen all his personalities,
would you still wanna jump in?
You have to look deep in yourself what you look for in a mate. Is
it his cuteness? His good looking face? His caring attitude? His
quirky behaviour? Can he commit to this r/s with you all the way?
Can he respect you as who you REALLY are and not just simply
another girl? Can he love you unconditionally even if someday you
may "leave" him?
Love is more of giving than
receiving.
I quote an example: If a person loves someone and expect that
someone to love the person back just as much. Isn't it the same as
some dealing in products? You pay for a certain item and its not
called "love". Its more of "selfishness in self".
I do not know what you have gone through or what you and your ex-BF
did to warrant a break up. All I can tell, based on WHAT I READ, is
that you two were NOT ready for commitment and you two fell in love
based on the act of emotions at the moment. When emotions died
down, what is there to keep fueling the relationship?
Do ponder upon the questions.
