hello i am worried about a friend of mine as she is finally with
this guy she had been crushing on for a long time. he was quite
cute in a nerdy sort of way, good-boy image. It was bliss for her
for 2 weeks, then she became very moody and didn't seem herself
anymore. i thought it was a lover's quarrel, so i did not pry.
She sms me one night and told me, he had been forcing her to
have intercourse with him to prove her love. she said she was
willing but it hurt like crazy everytime and she would push him
away, but he would threaten to break up with her as he said by
pushing him away meant she did not have him in her heart anymore.
sometimes she would try to bluff him saying she was having her
period, but he would corner her and pull down her pants to prove
that she was lying and demand to know if she was cheating on him.
She really loves him and doesn't want to let go of this painful
relationship, always believeing he'll change and love her more in
time to come. she believes he's in hurt as his ex (before her)
cheated on him and he doesn't want to be hurt again...
one of the things you can do for her is to persuade her to make
a police report. such a bastard deserves to be jailed and
canned...
