First and foremost, I want to clarify that I am not a homophobe.
So I started Poly and there is this guy who approached me to be
friends because he thinks I'm good looking. I'm not bragging here,
just stating what happened. He would say that I'm cute in front of
the whole class and in the class whatsapp group and calls me
handsome. People are calling him gay already and he always reply
with the same thing: "I am a normal boy". Like wtf? Isn't that what
only aliens would say when they invade earth?
I feel really uncomfortable around him. I told him to stop
acting so gay around me and he says"we brothers mah". He calls me
brother, cute, handsome and more and treats me like his best
friend. He is currently in my clique so I can't avoid him because
doing so would mean I would avoid my whole clique. Avoiding him
wouldn't work also because he clings to me every single time.
Most of the time, our class are in labs with computers which we
can use while listening to our teachers talk. He would most of the
time, play childish games or experiment with softwares in the
computer and would not listen to the teacher. He would also talk to
me about unnecessary useless stuff, causing me to not hear what the
teacher is teaching and I have to try very hard to concentrate. I
have to put my hand up in his face to tell him to stfu because I
want to hear the teacher talk.
So after lessons, he would be the last to leave the classroom
because he is either continuing his work or talking to a friend
from his secondary school. My clique wanted to eat so we went ahead
to the canteen, not wanting to wait for him to finish his work by
god knows when or to wait for him to enjoy his chat with his
friend. After that, he would say "WHY PANG SEI ME" "QIAN ZHOU AH"
which means that he owes me a beating. He would always take his
goddamn time to leave the classroom and then says the same old"
PANG SEI " nonsense every single time.
Not only that, he always whines about how hard he is struggling
in the course. He would tell me that he wants to change course at
least twice EVERYDAY. I'm really sick of him because I'm struggling
with the course too but he is spreading negativity to me. He also
requested to change course to the teachers,jokingly. Most of the
time the teacher just ignore him because he also say that to
teachers a lot. But sometimes the teachers can fed up hearing him
say that that they will say "change lor". I'm begging him in my
head to change course because no one wants him here. He won't be
missed. Not only that... he wears the same shirt thrice a week.
Sometimes he shows off his tiny arm muscles, thinking he is very
fit. zz
He is really selfish too. That time he wanted me to follow him
because he needs to do something during our break time. I agreed
because I didn't want to be a bad friend and I ended up wasting 3/4
of the break time waiting for him to get his job done. After that I
wanted to rush up to my class, without eating of course, but he
asked me to wait for him to eat because he said "I eat very fast
one". I was hesistant but he don't care. I followed him to the
canteen and he bought his plate of "shyt". So when he put his plate
onto the table, I was like "finally, just eat your shyt and we can
go back to class" BUT NO. HE WENT TO A LONG QUEUE BECAUSE HE NEEDS
MILO TO DRINK WITH HIS MEAL when we are already going to be late.
So I just sat there and wait for him eat and we were late by
10mins, after runnning for a bit.
Sometimes he will criticize you, jokingly, out of nowhere and
says "JUST KIDDING" and slams you on the shoulder. This
critisicism, which was meant to be a joke, is so bl00dy harsh.
After him seeing the offended look on my face, he would then say "
DUN ANGRY LAH, DUN CRY LAH" when smiling and looking at my still
offended face.
He is really a laughing stock of the class. Blur, because he
gets lost around the school campus so easily and couldn't find the
table in the canteen where my clique was eating at, when he already
put down his bag. Gay, because he calls me cute and handsome and
asks to hang out with goodlooking boys from other courses.
He does help me a little bit with my work. Like when I missed
what the teachers say, he would repeat it to me but there is so
much about him that pisses me off. I have never considered myself
to be a homophobe but he is turning me into one. Can anyone give me
a solution to how to rid this clingy friend who is so gay? I really
am frustrated.
