How will you feel if you were me?
When going out with my husband and my husband's buddies of 20 +
years and their wives,
1) The wives don't talk to me
unless I talk to them but usually is just Q & A
sessions.
2) One of my husband's buddy
has a Bimbo wife (call him X), always dress up like she is a model
and some high class chic. One day, as usual during an outing, she
dressed up like she is some Miss Singapore Universe, my hubby's
buddy ask my hubby to bring some ice cream for his bimbo wife.
(Like what the hell ?! So are average girls ok with
that??)
3) This X, at times for
whatever reason, will raise his voice at me. Got one time, when X
and his Bimbo Wife sat in our car and as I saw that my seat was
pushed too far back, I asked them are they ok, feel comfortable or
not if not I adjust my seat, my husband said in a rude voice, 'no
need' and then X added in another rude voice, ' no need
la'.
4) One day, we go to pub to
chill, after that, I casually asked my hubby whether we sitting in
X's car, my hubby say, 'still sit in his car?' Then X raised his
voice at me, 'No la, not sitting in my car !' (Cos X fetched us to
the Pub in the first place so I thought he was going to fetch us
back too).
5) And that was not a once in
a while thing, it was quite frequent whenever I attend the outing.
Recently, when visiting another friend for his house warming, out
of friendliness, I show X a friendly smile, X gave me a 'heck care'
expression. When coming to evening, X suddenly raised his voice in
a rude manner at me asking, 'how is the house?! '
6) Bimbo wife has a daughter
and so I exclaimed , 'Cute daughter' and Bimbo wife threw me a
nasty look. That was not an isolated case. Even I don't talk, she
also throw me nasty looks at times. I may not be able to mix with
other wives but I seem to have more nasty encounter with X and his
Bimbo wife. When I told my hubby I do not want to go out with them
anymore, it will upset him and he will throw tantrums.
Haiz, but really ....... how
will an average married woman react?
(Mod Yunhaier: have edited for you)