Nic, please start a new thread on AA.
ANyway... my two cents... Love does not resolve issues. If
there's problems in your relationship, you deal with it.
Smothering her with your love does not make her problems go
away.
If she's already buried with her studies, the last thing you
want to do is add more burden to her life.
A good relationship is one that enhance, add value, supports.
Bring out the best of each other. Not use each other as a clutch
for your own short coming.
There's too much on both of your plates right now.
Don't let your insecurity suffocate her.