Kimosabe83 quoted-
1)Those that have not done it but choose to comment. (do
they really know anything at all, is their opinion
valuable?)
2)Those who have done it and failed. (hmm..this group is
a bit tricky, the have obviously not used the right methods or are
doing something wrong or maybe its just the wrong
company)
3)Those who have done it and suceeded. (they will be
able to share with you, there personal journey...which normally is
not smooth sailing.)
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Think I had heard this somewhere, Tim Sales?
(do they really know anything at all, is their opinion
valuable?)
(hmm..this group is a bit tricky, the have obviously not
used the right methods or are doing something wrong or maybe its
just the wrong company)
(they will be able to share with you, there personal
journey...which normally is not smooth sailing.)
I apologise upfront, but I had to point a discourse in
respect:-
1) You sound as if they did not 'experience' it. That makes
their opinion irrelevant.
2) You sound as if they did not used the right method with the
word "OBVIOUSLY"
3) You sound as if they really want to share a secret with
you.
I point to alternate take:
1)Those that have seen their friends done it, their
families done it but choose to comment themselves. (I believe
that usually it would take an outsider to point the perception
holes of another)
2)Those who have done it and failed. (Simply, I believe
that MLM is not meant for them, but they think they "already had"
the competence necessary, perhaps they had such competence
but this would require great difficulty.)
3)Those who have done it and succeeded. (I believe that
people who want to try tell people how they have succeeded are
either 1) Egoistical, 2) Had a stake in other peoples 3)
Politicians 4) Deprived.)
I need to apologise again, your above comment sounds like from
another MLMer.
1) You know, when our friends or families do it, we never really
got to understand in depth what they are doing or what its
about..
Personally for me, only when I actually got to do it, do I
understand what it is all about..
Knowing and understanding are totally different. 
2) I agree it's true that there are some who is not for them..
similar to studies, some people just cannot study and always fail
no matter what.. but it doesnt mean that we can't.. that's why
learn from those who can.. goes back to 1) again.. seriously
understand it.
3) Whether they are egoistical or have stake in other people etc
dun matter to me.. as long as what they share can help me to
succeed in my own business.. dun need to care how much they earn
etc.. it's their business.. just focus on our own.. 
