Give urself some credit man.. lol.. well, it may hurt ur ego if
u fail first time but... if she is the one u really want, u just
gotta have uber balls.
lol
im a humji when it comes to this 
and hor i very 佩服 u leh seriously
first time bang walls liao still no give up
that one is very admirable
if i kena reject 1 time i wun appear in the area liao
