i'm not defending myself or anything. making myself vulnerable
as in?
hmm.. i have seen some examples of my couple frens. the person
that they fall in love with is not exactly the dream girl or the
dream guy that they have dream of or even imagine to be.
as they experienced different things in life, the things or the
goal they changes with time. so the person they end up marrying or
being in love kind of matches their strength and
weakness.
growing up =/= gaining experience.
so don't tell people to grow up. i'll appreciate it much if you
have said,
' you'll understand when you experience it in future. '