nvmlar.
but it depends on the number of children u have
1st child - my 1st brother, father pinned hope on him, making
him do this and that
as it goes on...it lessens and
until me and my younger sister, he very relac and i treat him
like a best fren 
yeah lo. mi the youngest so my mum n dad dun really have any
expectation on mi leh.