Well, since this is a talk cock forum, I guess I can put this
here. haha...
Does anybody like myself, have a super duper obssessively
controlling mother? Well, don't get me wrong though, I love my mum
very much, however, there's just something about her that kinda
ticks me off at times.
She jumps at anything and everything that does not seem to match
her train of thoughts, or even anything or everything that is out
of her control. Maybe like a decision that my brother made to hang
out late at one of his army buddy's place over the weekend, beer
and watching EPL, well, I don't see anything wrong with that, but
my mum was jumping up and down about it.
Basically, she's so used to controlling my sibblings and I, that
now that we are grown up, and we start to make our own decisions,
she's not used to it. She's so used to making all the decisions for
us, telling us what to do, what not to do, what to say, what not to
say, who to hang out with, and who not to hang out with.
Okay, maybe when we were all young, it's good for us, so we
don't end up committing crimes or fall into bad company. But come
on, I mean, most of us are grown up, working adults, we ought to be
old enough to make our own choices.
Anyway, to cut the story short, my mum has been freakin' out the
past few years. Every decision that my brother, my sis and myself
are making, she's like the audtior. Everything must have her
approval. Some people consider us as being spoilt because my mum
always makes the decision for us.
My elder sister happens to be the first person to breakthrough.
Nowadays, she's making decisions with and without my mum's
knowledge. She understands that if she wants to do something in her
life, she can't always depend on my mum's approval. If everything
also need her approval, nothing will ever get done. Well, my mum is
super conservative, from those traditional chinese family
background kind.
Well, this is the only thing I don't like about my mum. I love
her for everything she is still. But sometimes, I do hope that
she'll change.
Has anyone overcome this experience, if you happen to share
it?
