Why are some guys so insensitive?

rlsh07 SG

why are some guys just so sensitive? argh.. my brother really want my mum to spell out everything that she want. first thing his voice is already so loud. then he do the wrong thing at the wrong time without knowing that what he does is wrong. when i tell him not to raise his voice n the wrong thing that he does, he insist that he did not do anything wrong and instead blame my mum for losing her temper.

really blockhead u knoe he! . he say my mum is a very difficult woman to deal with. i do admit my mum is quite difficult at times but i do understand my mum do show her concern the wrong way sometimes but she loves us a lot.

my brother just do not get it at all, he thinks that my mum looks down on him.

i just do not understand why he can be so insensitive sometimes

argh. i dun get it why he dun get it.

gunner77 SG

guys are like tat one

rlsh07 SG

i think so too. some la. sigh....,.

gunner77 SG

i also like tat.

sometimes i don understand what the hell my mother is doing

youyayu SG

u girls ar.. same for my gf also

want me buy things for her just say la..

have to go one big round.. =.=

of cos piss off la

rlsh07 SG

u girls ar.. same for my gf also

want me buy things for her just say la..

have to go one big round.. =.=

of cos piss off la

but i think my bro is the ultimate liao

youyayu SG

but i think my bro is the ultimate liao

i think your bro is pissed off cos everything your mum want she want to hint

and do wrongly kena scold

not like guys

we want it we will say it..

purpledragon84 SG

ur brother how old?

QX179R SG

OT: kindly check ur topic title for error..

rlsh07 SG

i think your bro is pissed off cos everything your mum want she want to hint

and do wrongly kena scold

not like guys

we want it we will say it..

actually the main trigger is that my brother is doing the wrong thing at the wrong time but he do not want to admit his mistake and furthermore even when my mum tell him le, he will get defensive and when my mum nag, then he will say why mum never say this in the first place.

so i dun knoe. oh well.. but my bro is really bai mu sometimes.

rlsh07 SG

OT: kindly check ur topic title for error..

you can edit for mi ba. i think i so angry at him le

youyayu SG

actually the main trigger is that my brother is doing the wrong thing at the wrong time but he do not want to admit his mistake and furthermore even when my mum tell him le, he will get defensive and when my mum nag, then he will say why mum never say this in the first place.

so i dun knoe. oh well.. but my bro is really bai mu sometimes.

see what i mean by turning one big round?

rlsh07 SG

ur brother how old?

he ar? 26 liao lo

QX179R SG

he ar? 26 liao lo

i'm 3 yrs younger..

rlsh07 SG

see what i mean by turning one big round?

first thing my brother did wrong, he did not admit. i have clearly told him wat is his mistake, he still think that he is in no wrong. so wat do you think then?

QX179R SG

some pple must learn it the hard way..

rlsh07 SG

i have clearly told him how to behave in front of my mum because i knoe my bro would not observe. so i clearly told him not to raise his voice, just be obedient for once n just go to bath. but my bro did not do all these things and still want to make my mum so angry. sometimes i think that a peace maker in the house is really hard to become

purpledragon84 SG

wah sai.. hmm.. can give one solid example?

i think youyayu has a point in that if some things need to be done, just say it out.. sometimes, not the guy see and dunwan do.. but just that he missed it altogether..

but the tone and voice part, i think someone better knock some sense into him.. if at 26yrs old one stil does not know how to respect their own parents and find them naggy, self-reflection is really short in supply..

youyayu SG

first thing my brother did wrong, he did not admit. i have clearly told him wat is his mistake, he still think that he is in no wrong. so wat do you think then?

like you already said.. your mum nv get straight to the point.. and your bro intend to do the wrong things so your mum is at wrong in the first place..

don't think guys speak the same language as you women okay..

girl : wow that dress is very nice
real msg : buy for me that dress

girl : i not hungry
real msg: I on diet

girl: i nv bring enough money
real msg: Treat me

youyayu SG

well for my house..

if i am unhappy about something i just shout back at the person i not happy with sound like i am childish but belive or not this meathod is taught by my dad he say no matter who him or mum not happy just express it out..

what for? make your self sick by keeping everything by yourself.. instead of expressing out..

but maybe your brother get a little overbroad.. but then again hey.. maybe he got a real bad day and get nagged any guy will lose his temper..