wat u mean ur standard? 
u mean in order to be ur bf, need to do 20 pull up ah?
ya lor, some gals like those fit body, but u just now say
if u love someone, u donno why u love the person
so body important meh?
no la. consider to be fit lo. my bf not fit la. he chubby chubby
one like mi lo. i say other girls, not mi la