I have told many before. I have an army friend who started a
company 2.5 yrs ago with $100 (not $100k, a hundred dollars only),
and is now grossing $600k revenue annually. Contacts? No. That guy
started with selling at SgForums and HWZ marketplace.
Another army fren combined with his uni fren to come out with
$10k, use SPRING Singapore's scheme to get additional $40k (for
<26 yrs old) and NUS scheme to get free office. Start of 2011,
his company was worth $3mil (Singtel bought a stake). Contacts? No,
just his prowess in selling his idea to SPRING.
The $500k annual income PhD tutor started off earning $200 a
month. Contacts? Built by himself. Capital? Zero.
Are these isolated examples? No. I can rattle off more. What's
the difference between these people and the example you raised?
These people don't give up, they don't resign themselves to their
limited circumstances. The first guy failed in two businesses
before succeeding. Heck, he don't even have a uni degree. The 2nd
did only moderately well in school, but had good business sense and
started reading up during army days. The 3rd quitted an engineering
job due to extreme low pay and no future.
So to be extremely honest with you, while it is hard to break
out of the box given limiting circumstances, it isn't anything
impossible. And to be even more critical, if someone resigns
himself/herself to not doing anything because of the extremely lame
reason of "its quite hard for them to take other route out unless
they have contacts and $ capital to start their own company", that
person deserves to be just normal. And yes, to just resign to fate
and continue with it as well. Nothing wrong if such a person is
happy with the situation, but obviously, from your posts, your
relative isn't.
As I have said earlier
It's always easier to spend time to complain, criticize, give
unsolicited and unprofessional advice than to actually spend time
to do the job.
I would like to add too that it is always easier to put the
blame on your current situation to others than to attempt taking
action to rectify it.