SEx by the third date?

Huestang17 SG

I was having a discussion with a co-worker the other day about dating and he swore to me there is an unspoken rule with guys that you have to have sex with them by the third date to keep them interested. If not they will move on to the next thing. He honestly believes ALL guys are like this. I'm not so sure I agree though. I've been off the dating scene so long now I'm not really sure about anything to be honest. lol So I thought I would come here and see if any of you have heard of this unspoken rule and if there's any truth to it at all.

Personally I think if there's chemistry between two people it will just happen when it happens. When both of you are comfortable. There shouldn't be a game about it, or an expectation that someone HAS to be comfortable enough by the third date or risk losing the person. Someone like that to me wouldn't be worth continuing dating anyway. What do you think?

i'm female 24 and i love to have date always :) my y.a.h.0.0 messenger id is HueStang17
you can talk to me regarding sex.

Poolman SG

uncle me young time second tme ki chia liao .... if not will kena hijack .

But now weak .... first time ON also cannot stand ......

Know why ?

Cos we are in a level , going for real sex , both also know how to shiok type , not going thru motion type , going thru motion can go buy at geylang .

speakoutfor SG

Got such rule meh?

Sounds as ridiculous as:

1) You must shit in front of Paragorn if you go to orchard road the third time

2) If you shake your dick more than 3 time,s it will cum

3) If you cough three times, your teeth will fly out

FireIce SG

cough three times eyeball fly out lah
almost happened to me

Chachisol123 SG

killtheink SG

not all guys are like that la. your co-worker sounds so cock sure, making a huge generalization about dating and sex. it's like now the sex is the determining factor in whether the relationship should carry on? this kind of rule sounds like it was taken from the sex bible in american pie.

TrasSmile SG

LOL... I honestly think that Sex is not the answer to relationship.

Speaking from a "not-in-a-marriage-yet" point of view, Sex will not guarantee that your relationship with that partner will last. In fact, Sex will only end the relationship the moment you get into a room with that guy and have sex.

Honestly speaking, Dating is all about getting to know your partner in terms of his character, style, like and dislikes. In short, it's about knowing if that guy is the right one for you. If he is really interested in getting to know you, sex would be the last thing on his mind, especially in the beggining of any love relationship.

I hope this message serves you well and Good Luck!

mcsy86 SG

sex on 3rd date to remain him/her as FWB then i agree lah...

Lynnlammy SG

I think it depends.... I think it's safe to say that most guys are like that? so far it has been like that for me..... you can see they get more and more cheeky by the dates... aiyo....

Aneslayer SG

I did it after a majong date... being paid in kind... Worth it!

FireIce SG

at the rate the govt is pushing it, it shd be first date.

or dun bother date lah. jit tao lai.

flighter_fighter SG

Lol lor. Some girls I know will do it on the first date already, while some will preserve until really bf/gf then do lor. I think i prefer the one after become a couple first. So kan chiong for what?

mcsy86 SG

Lol lor. Some girls I know will do it on the first date already, while some will preserve until really bf/gf then do lor. I think i prefer the one after become a couple first. So kan chiong for what?

there are some who wait until wedding day..

flighter_fighter SG

there are some who wait until wedding day..

that is even better