women only have the upper hand when they are beautiful and
choosing average joe as there are plenty medicore suitors.
capable men with resources are always having the upper hand when
choosing beautiful ladies. this is also genetic selection as
well.
Capable men do not need to always necessarily choose capable
women. when he knows he has abundance of resources to provide, why
would he need a capable woman? what he need is a wife to support
him emotionally and physically. A lady who are willing to stick to
him thick and thin.
They obviously do not need women telling men that women has the
upperhand as they have many others who willing to compromise. A
relationship is not about getting the upperhand. it is about
gaining happiness when we share.
You description does applies to bad capable men out there, and I
do not doubt the credibility of your information.
But the good men who are capable would fall into the
category which I have described in my post.
And not forgetting that capable women would only pick the good
and capable men.
Bad and capable men like what you have described, would have
been struck out and eliminated without consideration from capable
women.
Do not forget that it's the women who make the relationship
possible for her men.
Men can only get into a straight relationship when the Women are
willing.
So do not forget that women will always have the upper hand in a
relationship.
