I saw too many unsuccessful marriage to put confidence in a
piece of paper is plain naive. 1 out of 4 of my frens are
divorced...that's 25%! What happened to the marriage vows and
happiness? Do u guys have frens that are divorced too?
Yes, another fellow of mine was put to the sword recently, he
couldn't afford to maintain a maid ( got one but had to
let go after a few months, loss of face on his wife family
side), can't afford to keep his car (sold it despite his wife
anger, loss of face on his wife family side), he did not change his
job to a 8-5 to help over with the child rearing and
housework (is a man in blue, dangerous to leave, a bit old and
not much qualifications, loss of face on his wife family
side). In short, he failed to match up to his wife expectation,
loss of face for his wife when she wanted to compare to her family
side people. Haiz!
