I am a chinese singaporean guy who is in my mid 20s years
old.
Never have a gf in my life before as I am a quiet person and do
not know how to be romantic to pursue girls that I like.
I am a diploma graduate from a local polyetchnic.
A pretty boring person who goes home straight after work and
prefers to stay at home during the weekends. Not much hobbies
except surfing internet and watching shows on the history of china
and watch tv as these are cheap/free hobbies and do not spend much
money so I can save money by doing these activities.
My parents divorced when I was 12 years old. Father has
remarried and I stay with mother and grandmother. Grandmother is
often sick and is already 78 years old.
Mother is not rich. She only have O level qualification and
earns less than 2k a month.
My salary is slightly less than 2k a month. Just a normal office
staff and I have just changed a new job so I do not have a good
career yet (which is what many females are looking for).
I am now thinking of finding a girl whom I hope I can eventually
get married too.
I do not have much expectations of the girl as long as she can
fulfil this following critieas:
1. She can be in her early 20s to early 30s years old. I do not
mind girls who are slightly older than me. She must be working too
as my salary is less than 2k so I can't afford to support her and
give her a good life.
But of course, I do not need her to support me financially as I
can work and support myself.
2. She must be willing to lead a simple life with the guy she
loves(me). I do not have bad habits like gambling, smoking,
drinking, filtring with other girls, wtaching pornograhy etc.
I am also not the creative or romantic type of person but I am
the very faithful type of person so she must be willing to accept
that..
I also do not have a car and my habits are eating at coffeeshops
as this can save money.
In a nutshell, the girl must be willing to lead a simple life
with me if we were to get marry..
3. My house do not have any space for her if we get marry. Its a
4 room flat under my mum name. My mum, I and grandmother each stay
at our own room so there is no more additional room.
If we were to get marry, either we can stay at her or her
parents home if it is big enough, if not we can buy our own hdb
flat in which both of us will have to contribute towards paying for
the house as I have mentined previously that as I earn slightly
less than 2k a month I can;t pay the house all by myself..
Any girs here, be it singaporeans or foreigners who are single
and looking for a life partner and can statisfy these 3 criteas
please send me a private message so that I cna intro more of myself
and we can start off as friends first before getting to know each
other better..
Thanks alot.
