After reading your story, confirm you are not the chip i know
lol...
Anyway, the way you think is wrong to a certain extent...
"My boyfriend told me to reject their offer and spent time with
him instead. I was stunned."
Do you know why your boyfriend wants you to reject the offer? From
my point of view, it is not stupid at all that he says such a
thing.
Well, you may agree with me or don't agree with me, certain guys
think like this and it's normal.
First of all, drinking and alcohol.
Touching these, you will never know what can happen to you next.
You might not hear much stories of what happen, but there are a lot
of cases which actually happen.
You might be thinking that nothing will happen. But there still,
your boyfriend is worried. Only because he cares and he fear that
something might happen, he asked you to reject. You might think
this is a stupid reason to reject, but you never know how much it
actually haunts him just thinking that you are going to zoukout.
It's not that he don't trust you or what, but just that he can't
help it but to worry.
And, the reason why he doesn't wants to say his real reason to
you. Do you think if he say that because he fear something might
happen, it's a good reason? It might seems just a simple reason,
but it's actually something that he really take it seriously and he
really fear that something might happen. I personally have this
feeling before which is why I know how he felt. And you already
might be thinking that "It's stupid", so he of course won't say the
truth of how he felt. Cus he know that you will think it's
stupid.
He ask you so spend time with him is just an excuse though.
But one thing you need to understand is that, you might see it
as just a small problem, but you never know how big that problem is
to him. It hurts him deep inside and it really haunts him.
"Random guys asking for our number. My friend is the most
prettiest within our group and of course, she gets more strangers
number than us."
"And another thing, i got a few of guys number here too."Well, if
you think this guy could be better then you current guys, I have
nothing to say.Strangers asking a girl for number, only for one
reason.
"Not gonna let some douche bag ruining my life."
You will never know are those new guys you met gonna ruin your life
or your current boyfriend who cares and worried even at the
slightest fact gonna ruin. And the answer who will ruin it is
pretty obvious.
Lastly one last advice to you, heed this advice.
Do not lose your v... People might be saying it's ok to lose, or
what so ever, or it's common now, it's the trend now... Just don't
get those stupid influence... Those are for losers. To tell you the
truth, yup in fact it's very common for people to lose their v, and
you can hardly find anyone who still is one... But still, don't
fall into temptation and influences. Know how to say no not only to
drugs, but to guys who ask it from you.
Cheers
