Hi everybody,
I need advice about what am I supposed to do about this guy. So
to the guys, please give me some insight to what men is thinking
because I seriously don't know.
We have known each other for 5 months. The thing is his behavior
is confusing. So I will write some things he said and did and you
guys tell me whether I am thinking too much or what? And what
should I do from now onwards!
The more distinctive things
1. Was coming for my lecture timing and not his normal
timing. The thing was he only bought one chocolate and it
was for me, not for himself. And he sat at the place where I sit
for lectures and he skipped lunch just to come to lecture.
2. For my birthday. He gave me a pen and he sewn my name onto
it. Can you guys tell me whether this behavior is normal?
3. He calls me by my nickname, and very few people does
that.
4. Came to look for me during lecture. The
thing was he had nothing important to say to me he just wanted to
chat with me. He was just really awkward and shy which was very
funny.
5. I was at our CCA commitee meeting kind of. He was in the
commitee but I wasn't. But I stayed to wait for him to go home
together. But we did some sorting together. The rest of the
commitee were doing sorting at other places but left both of us
alone.
Smses
1. He tells me he is secretly waiting for my sms when I
sms him
2. He tells me he is smiling at my sms.
The thing is he is very very shy. Of course alot of other
details that I dont want to bore you guys with. But these are the
more distinctive ones.
Especially shy guys out there, pls give me advice. Does he like
me anot and what am I supposed to do when it comes to shy guys?
Give him some hints that I am interested in him?
The thing is why is it that he gets my number and my msn but he
doesn't take initiative over all these channels? Is it because he
is shy?
Please help! Thank you so much!
Are you dumb? he's being damn obvious already lah. he likes you.
why would someone who does not like you purposely come and look for
you in a lecture, when he could be somewhere else, doing whatever
he wants to do.
and unless he's a psycho, no guy will be 'secretly waiting' for
a girl's sms.
he's probably waiting for you to show him signs, that you like
him too.And so dun be a bitch by remaining ambiguous. a guy has
only got a certain amount of confidence when trying to court a
girl. dun wait till his courage runs out, with him thinking that
you rejected him.
and not all guys like to call. for instance, i am a SMS person,
and i seldom make phonecalls. you can take the initiative in these
matters.
I suggest you show him more obvious signs, like holding his
hands when you 2 are alone together. or ask him out for meals,
dinner etc. that should be quite an obvious proof of acceptance. if
he doesn't get that and pop the question "I like you, do you like
me too?", he must be blind.
Good Luck!
