How many of these
women have you dated?
1)CRY-BABY
HER MOTTO:
“Waaaa!”
The Trap: She makes you feel so
guilty that you make promises you can’t keep just to stop
her
crying. She knows the
power of tears. Unfortunately, so do you.
The Solution: Wait her out. They
are only tears, not bullets. Let her wail all she wants,
you’re
there while she’s wearing herself
out. Being compassionate means being there for her, not
caving
in to what she wants. Making
promises you can’t keep doesn’t make you a better
man.
Being yourself, even if she
disapproves, and still being there for her is strong, manly
stuff.
2)OLD
YELLER
HER MOTTO: “Fuck
you!”
The Trap: You live in fear of her
rages. Or, you shout back and have useless fights with
her.
The Solution: Don’t fight back.
Don’t feed the fire. Understand what she’s saying. Tell
her
you see she is angry.
Slow things down. Make specific requests of her – pin her down on
one
thing at a time and
make specific small promises you can keep.
3)THE
ILLOGICAL MANIPULATOR
HER MOTTO: “I’ll be irrational and
drive you nuts, then accuse you of
being irrational and therefore
WRONG.”
The Trap: You argue with her crazy,
illogical arguments, then to go insane—which she
then
uses as proof that you must be
wrong.
The Solution: She needs to be
right, so tell her when she’s right—even if it kills
you.
Arguing with her point-for-point is
useless; she isn’t logical. She uses what she calls
‘logic’
to wear you down. Her goal? To make
you flip out or give up. Admit that you are
irrational
by saying, “Sorry, but that’s just
the way I feel.” That gets you out of her accusation that
you
are ‘irrational.’ Keep
staying with what you want; keep the mantra, “This is the way I
feel,
what can we do about it?”
Eventually she’ll calm down. But logic and rationality never
works
here – only clear, simple
persistence. She needs to be right and in control. Give her that
as
much as you can while
maintaining clarity about what you want.
4)THE SHAMING
FEMINIST
HER MOTTO: “This is what men have
been doing to women for thousands
of years!”
The Trap: You’ll feel guilty and
ashamed about being a guy, and do whatever she wants to
get
her to back
off.
The Solution: Refuse to feel
ashamed of what other men might have done to other
women.
Be proud of being a man. Remember
how noble men are. Don’t argue on her terms—keep
bringing the conversation back to
specific events between the two of you – not some
historical
smorgasbord of male crimes that you
had nothing to do with.
5)THE
VICTIM
HER MOTTO: “You just don’t
understand how hard it is to be me!”
The Trap: She whines more than is
humanly possible. She can’t see that she is totally
committed
to being helpless. You try to help
and suddenly you ‘don’t understand’ and ‘aren’t on
her
side’. After all, the
universe is against her.
The Solution: Don’t try to fix her
problems. Let her learn her own lessons and realize
that
there is nothing you can do to make
her handle things ‘the right way’, which is how
you
would handle
them.
6)THE BEDTIME
BRAWLER
HER MOTTO: “Are you asleep? There’s
something we need to talk
about...[fill in the
blank]”
The Trap: Ending up in a horrible,
middle-of-the-night fight.
The Solution: Listen without
fixing. Apologize if appropriate. Put her off ‘til later. Give
in
on small stuff. Make
promises you can keep. Show “emotional vulnerability,” and ask to
be
held without
talking.
12 Types Of Women To Avoid
1- Miss Feminist
This woman postulates that all the ills of society are orchestrated
by men and the best
thing a man can do to improve himself is cut off his testicles and
grow a pair of ovaries.
She believes that women are angelic creatures who would make the
world a utopia if only the
male "patriarchy" would allow them to. Any woman who promotes these
absurdities lives in a
fantasy world and will have no problem at all treating a man in a
way that she would never
herself abide by. You can easily identify her by her incessant
mantra,
"All men think with their penises." Avoid her at all costs.
2- Miss Take
She's out for your money — pure and simple. Miss Take is the
ultimate in high
maintenance. She expects a man to finance her entire life just
because she is biologically
female. To her, a man should pay for drinks, dinners, trips,
flowers, and jewelry, while she
feels absolutely no guilt or compulsion to reciprocate.
She is nothing but a whitewashed prostitute. Miss Take thinks her
vagina is plated with gold and
is worth a million dollars. She is greed personified. Since she has
no concept of someone
else's feelings, her only interest is in getting what she
wants.
And don't be fooled — some apparently very "nice" girls are the
greediest of them all.
3- Miss Romance
This type of woman lives in a fantasy world of Lifetime Channel
movies and romance novels. Every night she goes home alone to spend
hours flipping through her bride magazines, imagining that, at any
moment, Prince Charming will ride up on his white horse, sweep her
off her feet, and offer her a problem-free existence for the rest
of her life. The Miss Romances of the world have been coddled by
parents and family, told they are "princesses," and have absolutely
no idea that real life consists of paying bills and cleaning
toilets. Miss Romance will expect to be taken care of, will be a
dud in bed, and will, almost overnight, turn into a shrieking nag.
Run.
4- Miss Elusive
This woman is closely allied to Miss Romance, but with a dark side.
She is usually one of the "walking wounded" — someone who has been
hurt in past relationships and so subconsciously avoids or
sabotages new relationships in the present. Your association with
her will be one of utter frustration, as first she shows great
interest in you, but very quickly runs away — then repeats this
cycle over and over again. Miss Elusive is the queen of mixed
messages. She will flirt with you and date you, but you'll never
get past "friend" status. What you will get is a million excuses
for her unavailability, all calculated to deceive herself that she
just doesn't have time for a relationship. Save yourself some
heartache — don't get involved with her.
5- Miss Angry
Like Miss Feminists, Miss Angrys really don't like men. They scorn
the male gender and can rattle off all the wrongs and misdeeds of
every man they've ever encountered. To Miss Angry, there's no such
thing as a nice guy — they're all "jerks," "creeps" and "pigs."
Many of them have lots of simmering anger at men, which can explode
at any moment like an erupting volcano. Unless you're into lots of
drama and screaming, stay away.
6- Miss Insecure
This woman seems great at the start because she's very nice,
accommodating and treats men well. But her inner insecurities don't
take long to surface. Pretty soon she's calling you 10 times a day,
asking to see "where the relationship is going," or because she
"just wants to hear your voice." She needs constant reassurance
that she's attractive, and worries incessantly about her makeup,
hair and the alignment of her clothes. She's clingy, needy and
compulsively agonizes that you're going to leave her at any moment
for "someone better." This kind of thing can get really creepy
really fast.
7- Miss Bitch
Miss Bitches are the sulkers, pouters and ball-busters of the
female world. They are very unpleasant people who treat their
fellow humans poorly, care only about themselves, and aren't
concerned at all if they hurt you or anybody else. Most Miss
Bitches qualify as Miss Takes, too. Miss Bitches are usually
good-looking and well dressed, and you can easily identify them by
the scowls on their faces as they imperiously strut through the
world.
8- Miss Me
A close relative of Miss Bitch, Miss Me is entirely focused on
herself. Miss Me needs to be the constant center of attention no
matter what she does or where she goes. She is a selfish,
self-indulgent, self-serving narcissist who was raised as "daddy's
little girl," and expects the same from you. Unless you enjoy the
company of spoiled brats, stay far, far away.
9- Miss Desperate
Whether it's her baby clock ticking or she's the last of her
girlfriends to trap a man, Miss Desperate wants to get married —
now. She doesn't care who the guy is or what he does — as long as
he's got a penis she can drag him to the altar. Watch out for this
one!
10- Miss Turncoat
She's a conniving little piece of work who's an expert at conning
men. Miss Turncoat will tell you exactly what you want to hear
until you're hooked deep into the relationship (or married)… and
then the truth comes out. Overnight, your sweet little girl turns
into a demanding, greedy, mercenary harpy who will browbeat you
into submission if she doesn't get her way.
11- Miss Tease
Usually, you can spot Miss Teases a mile away because she flirts
with anything in pants and flaunt her sexuality at every
opportunity. Sometimes she sponges off older men; sometimes she's a
ball-buster who enjoys getting men sexually excited and then
walking away; and sometimes she just basks in her sexual power by
attracting men like bees to honey. No matter how she operates, you
can't trust her because she craves male attention and if somebody
better comes along, she'll dump you in a heartbeat.
12- Miss Controlling
She is a subtly nasty one who will wind up directing every phase of
your life. She will tell you what to wear, where to go, who to talk
to, what friends you can have, what you can eat — everything. And
if you try to stand up for yourself, she will cut off sex, cry,
scream, pout, or use any other deceptive female tactic until you
give in and succumb to her demands.
