actually i think 'reporting' is quite important to maintain a
r/s.
don't have to see it in such a negative light, it's just about
letting your other half know where or what you are doing and avoid
unncessary suspicion and guessing in the r/s.
essentially give each a sense of security to make the r/s more
stable
I dun mind if my partner just tells me that she is not free to
meet up today because she is going out with her friends or whoever.
She dun have to tell me who, what, where, why, how. If I have
chosen her as my gf in the first place, I must firstly have trust
in her. I dun guess nor be suspicious because such behavior is
rather negative and seldom have any positive effects in a r/s.
Let's say there is no such thing as marriage in this world, then
the only possible reason the 2 of us can be together as a couple
for the rest of our lives would be love ad trust. So if such basic
conditions are not met, there is no reason to be in the
relationship in the first place.
