The Hidden Qualities Women Love in Men
A man women love is comfortable no matter what. When a situation
is against him, he is able to come out stronger. He does not
require women’s or other guy’s approval. He has integrity and never
diverts from it. He does not do everything a women wants thus
leading her to have all the power. He challenges her thoughts and
behaviors as not being good enough for him. He balances cockiness
with humor. He is able to tease, be funny about it, and build
attraction.
Balancing the cockiness with humor is something called “cocky
and funny”. This shows your confidence and high value using humor,
two extremely attractive qualities to a lady.
An example of cocky and funny can be picking something up
unusual about her and busting her for it. Say she is going out to a
party, you haven’t been invited, and she has a somewhat large bag
(it doesn’t have to be really large). You can bust on her by saying
“That bag is huge. Do you have a bomb in there and am going to blow
up the party or something? I’m glad I’m not going.”
This example is funny, gives you the power, and you show her you
do not need her approval. It won’t make her come chasing after you
but it’s what you need to constantly keep doing to build
attraction.
The other day a lady complimented me on how good I looked (I’m
not actually that good looking. It’s just that I was teasing her
and the only response she would have known to feeling attraction is
to be nice). What a wuss would have done is reciprocated the
compliment by telling her something good about herself or he would
have just said “thankyou” and let the situation fizzle down. I knew
this was an opportunity to keep building her tension. I looked at
her in a calm manner, said “Thank you. I always do.” and made my
eyes trace down her body. I saw her shoes which were these strappy
things with small heels. What I did was than told her she could at
least wear better shoes to keep up with my standards, “Did you make
those shoes this morning with strings and some bamboo?” She
laughed, loved it, and I loved it. It was confident, appropriate,
cocky, and funny.
Another confusing area on what women want in men is chivalry
which refers to courteous behaviors towards women. Chivalry has
never been and never will be dead. It is the context of which
chivalry is used that determines its effectiveness. A powerful
magnetic attraction is only made when strong behaviors that have
been discussed in this article are used in combination with
chivalrous behavior like:
Chivalry behavior is not as effective and may even be negative
when the man who is chivalrous is also a girly-man who sucks up to
women. Having chivalrous behavior in addition to the other
characteristics of a manly-man discussed in this article are hidden
magnetic qualities women love in men.
Back to other nice-guy qualities that women hate. A nice-guy
runs after women. He seeks approval begging like a little puppy for
attention. As a strong word of advice, if you are chasing a woman
you are not being chased by her. You demonstrate neediness and
approval by chasing. When you realize this and take control of the
overall meta-frame (the meaning of the interaction) she then
actually begins to chase you. Controlling the meta-frame
demonstrates your power, internal comfort, confidence, and no need
for approval, all characteristics women are begging for in a
man.
Do not be a traditional nice guy. Keep your power in your
relationship. Lose the need to control her. Become cocky and funny.
This will most likely make her attached, needy, and wanting your
approval. Who would have thought?
Women desperately want guys with these characteristics and
especially the more popular and hot women who are flooded with
nice-guys. These ladies always get nice-guys coming up and
complimenting them on how beautiful they are. If you talk to a lady
who has guys coming up to her a few times each week, I can
guarantee you she is sick of it, hates guys who are intimidated of
her, and guys who are a “walk-over”.
