udontknowme SG by no house you mean....living on the streets..? :?no car isnt an issue. and honestly, if a guy has a car and it isnt bought using his own money, i won't date him anyway.
Daisuke-kun SG a guy with no car, no house?does not mean he's poor wad..can be he lived with his parents and the house belong to the parents.no car can means he drive to work everyday with a jet plane.who wont want to marry a guy that is freakin rich!
SBS7484P SG got car, house =/= rich.no car, no house =/= poor.ive ever seen uncles wearing singlets sweeping teh floor at a carpark in amk.. and then half hr later drives away in a merc wearing immaculate flowery shirts.. dun judge a person juz by what it seeems to u that he doesent have a house of his own. the parents might have a huge mansion with more rooms than u and ur hubby can ever stay in.
SBS7484P SG yes. bread can keep u alive when ur hungry. i dun think the same can be for romance. its juz like the saying, when we can fill our stomachs then we sttart to think of things like love and being charitable. we must be self sufficient first.
Fatum SG it's the age old conundrum ....women wouldn't want a worthless man with nothing .....men wouldn't want a woman who wants him only for what he has ....haiz ...
Rednano SG married then can buy house car $ and $ all that maintenance, i rather use the money for my kids in future.
rockfire SG Good topic, have car, have house, all is not ours it loans. Hearts is not on loan or need to pay installment. it free. So pls choose heart. it the most expensive transportation.
foxwalk SG why not? when i married my husband, we had no house no car. two years later, we have a flat in a prime area and he has a company car (all petrol paid)
maxsee SG only an idiot will get marry for love....be realistic lah....love wun make ur stomach full.....only marry someone with no car and no house...if u see that he has a good future ahead of him....he might not have a car or house now....but if he has a good future ahead of him...he can attain them next time...dun marry someone with no car no house and no future...LOL
hisoka SG why udon so against a person who won his car in a lucky draw don’t even want to consider dating him?
^tamago^ SG married then can buy house car $ and $ all that maintenance, i rather use the money for my kids in future. i agree leh. if maintenance is S$1500 a month, minus public transport expenditure of $500 a month, you save $12,000 a year! probably the best time to buy a car is when your wife is pregnant, and for 10 years down the road. :D
Lin Yu SG so how? are we hinting PM to include all these considerations in his grand "SINGAPORE PROCREATE!!!!" pogramme
fairlady_xoxo SG erm....well its up to you right? if you feel that you're secured and that both of you can work things out somehow.It really depends on your attitude towards it...if you can't accept it...it will definitely not work out...
