Moving on

Agenda SG

Sometimes, you know you have to move on but you find it hard, even if you don't need to move on. You think of the possbility that one day you have to move on, you'll start thinking about great things like how you'll wait for her/him be his/her white knight on a white horse thing.

Yes, no?

fairlady_xoxo SG

Erm....i just feel that...why do you need to confine yourself to a possibility instead of something that might give you a higher chance or rate of success?

gigabyte14 SG

yes, and that is call dreaming

flabber SG

Erm....i just feel that...why do you need to confine yourself to a possibility instead of something that might give you a higher chance or rate of success?

Because

Holding on is hard.

Moving on is harder.

fairlady_xoxo SG

Then you're just not being fair to yourself aren't you? 长痛不如短痛...why torture yourself over the matters of the heart? There are still so many things that you've yet to experience...what makes you think that holding on...would be the correct and certainly guaranteed choice?

flabber SG

Ah. It all depends on your outlook on love.

You can choose to be pragmatic and rationale and well use your brains, maximise your chances, do what is socially accepted and basically using your head.

Then on the opposite end of the spectrum, once in awhile, you fall head over heels and give of yourself totally without regard of consequences. As they say, hong hong lie lie(don't know how you put chinese characters but I hope you get the drift). In this instances is it that simple to do? Isn't true love (if such a notion actually holds true) supposed to be such?

Hanagata SG

yes, and that is call dreaming

flabber SG

yes, and that is call dreaming

haha, yes and some people are dreamers who embrace that identity. =D

newcomer SG

it aint dreaming. see my horse? it's white.

soleachip SG

This one is also called growing pains.

*pats*

ghast. SG

cos moving on gives you other chances in life and the chances are actually happiness.