Not complaining, injustices must be righted....
There is no injustice at all. It is all in you. From your words
and posts, you make everyone has second thoughts on whether you are
a man at all.
If you cannot help yourself in this area, no one else can help
you. If you have already decided on the road to pessimism and
self-pity, no one here will lead you out. If you want to migrate,
by all means go ahead, no one will stop you.
It is no one's fault that you chose any path that you are in now
if you cannot take charge.