Let's say you are in school. You meet this cute girl and you
talk to her. At first, she seems so friendly and she's laughing at
almost every single thing you say, whether it's funny or not. You
are just being yourself.
Then you think to yourself: oh is this girl attracted to me ? Then
you ask her out for a date. She says ok. This happens for a few
times. Then one day, you notice her interest dropped. She became
very cold all of a sudden. She no longer finds you funny. You
notice that the chemistry between the two of you is dropping. She
begins to turn down your invitations.
So: what the freak happened ?
My thoughts: The first time you talked to her, you created a deep
impression on her because you are being your relaxed self. You hold
no attachment to her. You don't feel pressured to impress her.
Ironically, because you have no pressure to impress, you actually
attract her.
Then during the course of the interaction of next few meetings,
maybe you realised that she is attracted to you. Because you know
she's attracted to you, you are also attracted to her. Suddenly for
some reason, she pulls back, you realise you are losing something.
You start to do all sorts of funny things like keep calling her,
keep msgin her as if you have no other things to do. You find you
are not being yourself most of the time.
THEN, she avoids you at all cost.
so, any comments ? girls especially ?
doko
