Nata|ie SG But what if .. just what if... you are too scared to hold his hand? Too afraid that he will be like the other guys who came and left.
soleachip SG *hugs natalie* don't think so much dear... holding hands or not, fingers tightly clasped and unyielding or palms loosely linked, wavering, doesn't matter. all notions, sometimes tender ones, sometimes frivolous ones are all the same. they're all fleeting moments. hehe...
Cool-gal SG *sayang* its time to let go of ur past. dun be cruel to urself. give him and urself a chance. once it slipped, it might never return. wad if, he is the one who holds to the last??
wonderamazement SG Will not like having $5 on my cheeks... So depends on the feelings between both parties la...
ispyyy SG Courage ??? Rationally : If u hold some1's hands, u have nothing to lose... Coz, u r already in the worst case situation... wat can be more worse than now ??? If tat is what u want to do emotionally, to hold gives u a chance for happiness... Even if failed, all u need to do is just stand up and move on again... the most is get back to SQUARE 1 lor... well... at least tat is wat I always tell myself in non bgr situation where massive courage is needed... Emotionally : To hold some1's hands the first time is really an electricfying experience leh... I noe of people who break their marriage just to enjoy this type of "feeling"... Well... not so bad about being a single ... after all... coz, this type of "feeling" is so called the best moment of relationship... The feeling increases proportionally to how much affection u have for the other party... But however for me, emotionally : nothing seems to interest me And hence : rationally : there is no massive courage required because emotionally nothing seems to interest me hahahaha... all crap ... ok lah.. I move to crap thread lor...
toyota-corolla SG I wanna hold your hand~~~ But seriously, if you imply friends (girl), nothing shocking, I did that a lot of time. Is just that whether the other parties willing or not.
Nata|ie SG I shy , cannot hold my hand. Seriously, me not talking abt holding hands with my girlies. It's more like the opposite gender and whether I got the courage to hold another guy's hand if extended to me. I doubt so. I think I am a wuss.
sLeEpWaLkErInG SG holding hands is just the beginning, then still got hugging and kissing and then the finale.... well, u need to cross this barrier else hard to proceed further when u really meet the One...
Nata|ie SG So your partner is still holding on, and you want to let go? Or wat? For my case is I held on too long... then let go le.. Now no courage to hold another person's hand.
