cantonese marrying off daughter is "bigger" than marrying in a
daughter in law... but nope there's no "4 gold" thing, tat's
teochew...
cantonese must comb hair, "guo dai li", get kid to jump on bed,
sparkle sweets and nuts on bed, burn lamp for 24 hrs, pray to
ancestors, "pi jin", return home on 3rd day with suckling pig, buy
pants for elder bro and groom to come in under the pants if bro not
married etc etc etc etc etc....
