I know of 1 cousin who's mum really control his life. I remember
his mom telling my mom that if got any girls want to get near her
boy boy in poly, she will tell the girl not to be near him, he need
to study de. My cousin is also those very meek de, cny will jus
quietly sit at the sofa watch tv.
But he ns can go recce vocation. 
recce ah? got enemy spotted how? first thing report to mother ask
her how issit?
cham la lidat -___-