murphy......sighz........u know, (please don't mind me saying
this, but i am getting rather sick of
relationships...sighz.....been in 2 bad ones. tired out by them
already...) anyway, just trust your heart man. please follow your
heart. go where ever it leads you to. don't make choices just coz
your frenz said something. i mean, yes of course you can take their
opinions in, but do remember to ask yourself, what are you really
doing this thing for? you or them?
ok, so what if she is pretty? you said so yourself, you don't
really know her. do you think a relationship without the
understanding of both parties can work out? it would be purely
based on material stuff, or in this case, appearances, right?
and as for the other girl, whom u said says she doesn't think u
really like her, ask youself if u think she's worth it. if you can
say yes to this question, then show her that you really do like
her. she's most probably insecure i think. wait, i stress again,
this is in my own opinion, ok. she's feeling inferior, so
therefore, she's not sure whether you are just playing with her
feelings or not. or she could have been in a bad relationship
before, so therefore, she doesn't want to make the same mistake
twice. you know, "once bitten, twice shy" do take the gentle
approach. =)
anywya, wat came out of that guy (my friend, the one i mentioned in
my first post).........was that he gave up in the end. girl wrote a
letter to him, asking him to back-off (i think. he didn't exactly
tell me bout the letter, but it was most probably like wat i
thought.) anyway, watever your decision, i wish you luck. =)
dun blame me if it doesn't work out. hee~ =D just doing my best to
help you out here. =)