True, I am not mentally ready.
The sight of the many baby strollers in shopping centres, and
public transport sickens me.
If you can't afford a car, please don't have a kid.
this is hard truth too~ 
when u have a long day of work , or maybe just trying to have a
holiday after a weeks of hard work, babies cry in the middle of
night... woohooo~ jombies in the day
u might actually turn into the hulk after
sometime... either face green from lack of sleep or from rage

Next is baby stroller... for those guys who say they can live
without strollers by carrying the baby... dey~ carrying it for long
time is not funny... these guys usually say that during their NS
blah blah blah, they carry their bags, guns blah blah blah...
BUT DEY~~~ This is ur child, not some backpack where u can put
down on the floor when u are tired... besides, the younger guys
nowadays need their maid to carry their bags... how can they tahan
baby?