for some reason, I have to admit that I also agree wif
this...
This is all about commitment only, commitment won't make a person
feelingless, but commitment just act as borderline where someone
must not go beyond that line...
So if your gf commit to you, it doesn't mean "your gf will be
feelingness", she still can be attracted to someone which may be
better than you. Just like you, even though you are commited to
your gf, you still admire someone which is prittier or nicer than
your gf, but your *commitment* prevent you from doing so.
.. for your gf's sake... if breaking the *commitment* make her live
more happily, you may have to accept her decision. anyway, GF and
BF relationship is a *TOOL, DOOR, and FILTER* :
TOOL : to make both parties know each other, your weakness, her
weakness, and strong points...
DOOR : door leading to MARRIAGE, and straight to "LIVING TOGATHER
FOR A LIFETIME"
FILTER : whether both can ENDURE each other weak point, until both
reach MARRIAGE stage.. Need understanding to acknowledge other
parties' weakness, and to fill it with your strong point. But, if
you can't better not continue, cos once get into MARRIAGE stage,
all is too late ... you have to live with her weakness for the rest
of your life.
So, if she find that she can't get along with you (*FILTER*) or
find somebody have strong point which can cover her weakness, then,
to break the commitment is not wrong, but it is a process of BF-GF
relationship.
Unless you are in ENGAGED STATE (State excactly before marriage) or
MARRIAGE STATE, the BF-GF commitment is breakable for the reason
above ... for the sake of one of the party ...
rgds,
Alex
