nowadays very hard to remain positive
It is better to remain neutral, especially so in such a harsh and
fast society like singapore, too positive can lead you to other
problem if thing do not work out, by being neutral, at least you
can play around with positive and negative,
In life, remember, alway give yourself options, and also Plan
your move, just this BBQ, the organisers and helpers need to
plan, big or small nevermind, if you do not plan, it is also plan,
but plan to fail.