if a man is single bachelor and drive taxi, there's a very
high chance Game Over!
if his friends want to recommend him girls, but the moment they
find out his job, game over!
if his neighbours and neighbourhood people like retail shops and
coffeeshop or foodstall find out that man's job, their face change
faster than anything. one day smiling, next day like owe them
money, no more smile no more friendly. sometimes they look also
don't look, last time meet will still wave and ask how are you, now
like too busy to greet, eyes never see anything, like
invisible..
if go to dating events, everything can be ok and smiling and
friendly..then until talk about job, immediately game over.
sometimes the other party will suddenly keep very quiet, or raise
hand ask for change partner also have. sometimes they pretend to go
washroom, but never come back to sit same table, or the organiser
come over quietly suggest you another 'potential match' somewhere
else.. then switch until no one will to be your 'potential
match'..but the organiser still can smiling face suggest maybe come
back next time better chance haha!
if really very lucky you meet someone willing to go out with you
for something simple, maybe dinner or show, maybe they will show
face 1-2 times, then after that busy. call no answer, sms very late
reply. got couple times agreed long before hand and bought and paid
already, but last min message say cannot make it or family no
allow, so suggest ask someone else take over..half hour before
starting! they won't even tell you their FB so they won't
need add you. they will never show you their friends or intro you
when you accidentally meet some her friends or relatives..they will
just smile lightly lower head and push you to hurry like you in
rush.
some old colleagues or old friends long time no see, once they
find out maybe from others, will not only not greet or smile, but
will slant eyes look at you like you are some dirty animal.
sometimes the look is distaste sometimes the look is despise.
To drive Taxi, i think the man better get married first. Even
better, if have children to lock in the woman. theres a few cases i
hear, the woman, sometimes foreigner, still run away after some
time even they say they already know the man is taxi driver.
i know some people may say it must be me problem, i can be very
ugly or no manners. actually several times tried before, we already
talked a lot and even went out more than a few times, everything is
fine, nothing went wrong, but then when i say out..the outcome is
always the same. they will like abandon ship suddenly. there can be
no different in how i look, how i behave, i am still the same. the
only difference if i reveal sooner or i reveal later, is just that
sooner or later only.
there is only one time, a passenger ask me if i interested to
look for life partner. but that passenger is a slighly plump 40 yrs
old PRC who is going to RWS. so i think not much hope already. if i
want to get married have children, i have to change my job or
change my story, other words, lie. but how long can paper cover
fire?
above is my own personal experience, may or may not apply to
everyone, i know some of you maybe lucky or skillful meet the right
one who accept you, so please do not react like crazy if not your
taste. if you have something to share, then welcome.
My advise to you is not to rush into anything.
Since you can write so well, you might be better off working as
a senior technician in a taxi workshop company. Your job would be
to find fault with taxis and write good reports.
Sorry. Just ranting. Life is like that. Other members gave you
suggestions. You wrote a good post but working as a Taxi Driver. I
cannot write as good as you but better than most taxi drivers here.
I AM A TAXI DRIVER AND PROUD OF IT.