Alway allow mistakes, give yourself options in life, you notice
that whatever we wanted in life can never be 100% really turn
out to be what we wanted, as simple as wanting to eat a bowl of
laksa at a FC, turn out to be eating Lor Mee, cos the Lor mee there
is said to be famous and good, a gathering at some location can
also turn up in another location because of this and that...hardly
can you control the destination, not to mention that if you are a
TD, first trip to AP, can change your day.
Since destination in life is somehow beyong our full control, we
can only guide it base on things that are within our self and
control, and that is our good basic principles of life, the
direction and priorties.
Principles of what we are and what we want, write is down, state
priorites of thing to do and set direction, review, change and
move on. The key is to set achievable and realistic principles and
goals, not that as a casket driver, I ask myself to take a Phd is
really unrealistic. It is not easy for some cases, like quitting
smoking, can do quit in 6 months time?? However, if is achieved,
the immerse glory felt is really enormous.
