i hv been in a self employed business long enough to know that
if there is a lucrative trade in the market anyone with a sharp
ears and eyes will rush into it and soon enuff it will be
competitive.
Based on what u have written abt your debt. i believe i had more
shit thrown at me tho most of it wasnt my wrong doing. Maybe
im wrong abt you cos you didnt explain your situation
clearly.(but your situation thru your description sounds like a
spur of a moment of folly be it thru high stakes gambling or stocks
contra that went bad this few weeks).
My advice?( Best advice is always from someone that has fallen
real bad and not from some successful dudes).
Your family is and always is still the closest.(Cut the bullshit
crap that frens will be be your side during this times of need) and
yes your family will screw and f u upside down but eventually they
will still help you out.
Lower your standard of living and change your lifestyle. I
have done it and i know it can be done.(Try living on 2k a month
feeding a family of 4 for the past one year).
And lastly change yourself and not the problem that you
are facing cos if you dont, i have a gut feel that you will just
face the same old problem after solving the other.