I think the best is not to touch all these thing, if really
need, just do and forget it, drive on. Bro Pool is rite, these gals
objective are different, they got nothing much to loose, Most are
fishing for a big fish, is no big fish, they go for ikan bilis like
TD and workers, their interest is money, if possible, marry to a
stupid singapore man than get PR, than get relatives in and so
on.
I got a buddy who married one of them, so happy, end up all
money gone, that PRC gives birth to son, converted to Sg Citizen,
she then get her china husband, a young guy down to singapore to
company her, betrayed my buddy. Now, this buddy lost everything, no
mood to drive TD, see already also fed up. So, please, do not make
singapore men look like a fool, we are suppose to be the smart
one.